So let me tell you what I have been hearing a lot lately in my practice. Variations of this: "I do not know why I feel so heavy right now. I know nothing is actually wrong in my life. I know I should not feel this anxious or this sad. But here I am."

If that sounds familiar, let's talk about what might actually be going on.

What retrograde season actually does to a sensitive nervous system

First, a quick middle-ground explanation for those of you who are somewhat familiar with astrology but do not consider yourselves experts. A planet in retrograde is not actually moving backward. It is an optical illusion based on the relative movement of Earth and that planet in their orbits. But what astrology teaches, and what many of my clients experience viscerally, is that retrograde periods tend to bring a slowing down, an inward pull, and a stirring up of energy that was already present beneath the surface.

From the outside, you look like you have it together. You are capable, reliable, and the one people count on. But inside, you are overwhelmed, exhausted, and quietly running on empty. This is what neurodivergent burnout can look like, especially for women who have learned to mask and carry more than their nervous system was ever meant to hold. If that sounds familiar, you are not alone, and you are not broken.

Grief Trigger Warning

Sometimes the world feels very heavy.
This is what was on my heart this morning.

Many people, especially highly sensitive and compassionate people, feel deeply affected by suffering in the world. When violence, war, or tragedy appear in the news, it can leave us feeling overwhelmed, heartbroken, or powerless.

Before anything else, I am a mother.

Yes, I am Laura.

You Work From Home — How Do You Have Work Besties?

“You work from home… how do you have work besties?”
That’s what my husband asked me after I got back from a local networking event.

He said it with genuine curiosity, not sarcasm.
And it got me thinking.

There’s this assumption that if you work from home, especially as a therapist or healer, you’re sitting in a room by yourself, slowly spiraling into professional isolation. But for me, the truth is quite the opposite….

Burnout is real, and when you throw motherhood into the mix, it’s a whole new level of chaos. Let me take you on my journey through it. 😅

It all started after grad school, just after I’d bought a house and thought I was doing everything right. I went to my doctor, (who was used to seeing me every few weeks because I was constantly sick. I didn’t realize at the time my body was trying to tell me to rest, take it down a notch. I blamed it on a bad immune system and working with kids.) Anyway, there I was, sitting in my doctor’s office, tears streaming down my face. He asked, “What’s wrong?” and all I could say was, “I don’t know! Everything in my life is good—I just graduated, bought a house, life is great.” He looked at me, nodded, and reached for his prescription pad, saying,”You don’t have to feel this way, I can help.” Desperate, I nodded in agreement.

A family story about precut watermelon reveals an unexpected lesson about burnout, guilt, and why choosing the easier option can sometimes be the healthiest form of self-care.

We all have peaks and valleys. That part is normal.

We all have them. Those seasons of life when things feel heavy, slow, or stuck. Whether it is a dip in finances, a rough patch in a relationship, or just a quiet erosion of the energy and enthusiasm you usually carry, highs and lows are woven into every human experience. And yet, when we find ourselves deep in a valley, it can feel profoundly isolating. Like something has gone fundamentally wrong. Like we have somehow failed at the business of living.

But what if you have not failed at all? What if you are simply experiencing low tide?

It’s important to keep yourself grounded in the midst of the chaos. I wanted to share with you today about how to get centered when you're feeling chaotic.